So you had your fun. You enjoyed the time, but now it’s time to sever ties. The problem is that this married man just won’t go away. For him, the idea of losing you is just too much. He doesn’t care that he’s married – to him there is nothing wrong with having both you and his wife. For you, the idea is just too much and you’re ready to be done with the whole thing. The problem is that your married man has turned into a creepy stalker and won’t leave you alone. He still calls you, stops by, tells you that he loves and needs you… Yeah, you know what this is all about.
There are some things that you can do to make sure that you get rid of him for good though, so if you’re ready to play dirty, you should consider taking these steps.
The first time he won’t go away
The first time he won’t go away, you should simply tell him that you’re going to tell his wife. This is where photos come in handy, and we hope that you’ve taken some of the two of you. You can make things even worse for him by threatening to post the photos in a social networking site. There is nothing that makes a cheater go away like the threat of having everyone he knows find out about what he’s been up to.
This should make most creepers take a second look at the situation, but if not you might need to take other measures.
The second time he won’t go away
Go ahead and make that call to his wife. Or a simple email might do the trick. Make sure she knows that you’re over it and done and that her husband won’t leave you alone. She’s going to be really mad and it’s likely that this will be enough to make your married man take a hike. She might very well make him stop seeing you and if he wants to work things out, he’s going to stop talking to you at all. Good news for you and a chance for him to repair what’s been broken in his relationship.
Sure, you hate to have to do this, but sometimes if they won’t go away, you’re going to have to take your own steps.
The third time he won’t go away
Embarrass him in front of co-workers and friends if you have to. Show up at his work in your slinkiest dress and make a fool of him. Tell his secretary or office assistant that you’re his girlfriend and you need to talk to him right away. Follow him into his office and proceed to make a real scene. Yell at him, tell him to get a life and leave you alone. Be certain that everyone will be talking about how he’s a creep for years to come.
Not only will he be embarrassed, but chances are that he’ll get in trouble from his boss as well. Unfortunately, when a married man won’t leave you alone sometimes you have to take these steps.
On the other hand, if you’re dating a married man and you really love him, you know how badly you want him to leave his wife. Here are some tips on how to get a married man to leave his wife.